Monday, December 1, 2014

Melba Elizabeth Richardson Anderson Beemus

My Grandma Beemus. I loved her. She represents sides of me I don't always like to admit I have and some I am extremely proud to claim. I loved how she would give us gifts and watch our faces light up when she saw us love them. She was a strong woman.
I wrote a Facebook Post the day after she passed that, I feel, was very descriptive of who she was.

"The world lost a strong sparkle last night. My Grandma Melba Elizabeth Beemus died at the age of 82. She was one of the toughest, craziest ladies I knew. I loved her. She was strong-willed, strongly-opinionated, and strong loving. She was fiercely loyal to her beliefs and her family. My Grandmother truly lived the saying, "Go Big or go home". I remember visiting or staying the night. She would make us everything possible in the kitchen that was edible. Eggs, French toast, waf...fles, cereal, toast, hashbrowns, sausage, bacon, fruit, and whatever else you could think of. And this was for just me or just me and my brothers sleeping over. lol. She also always had some kind of gum on her. No matter what day or time, there was always room for gum. She had a big heart and was a softie for her grandkids. She liked travel and sun and getting her nails done. We would do girly pamper sessions sometimes and lunch. She came from an old school way of life with old fashioned values and good old fashioned home cooking. She loved football and having us over to watch it on the big screen with pizza. She loved her roses and her trees in the backyard. I remember dancing in her living room while my dad played her organ. She loved music and laughter and giving us the kind of hugs that just about cracked your bones. I will love and miss you Grandma B. Your boisterous laugh is a sound I can't wait to hear again someday."

I loved her with all my heart. She will always be my Grandma B.

The services were nice. Everyone played a part. Mindee and I sang Be Still My Soul. My dad gave a beautiful talk about the life of my grandma and the plan of salvation.







Thanksgiving 2014

Short Post. I'm very excited to report, we have officially done, the First Thanksgiving! :) It was the first for Elan with our Family, for Amber (Amy's new baby girl) and for me doing this at my house. I thought it was going to be more stressful, but thankfully, it turned out extremely well. I loved it! We got the table and chairs from the church, everyone pitched in on the food and my mom walked me through how to successfully stuff a turkey :)

It was nice to have everyone so close. Nathan and Lyndsey couldn't make it with their kids because of Wesley not being able to leave home for very long. We all understood. Vanessa and Josh are still out of state. Kansas currently. But my Grandma Beemus just passed away. The funeral was beautiful, but it really helped me put in perspective how much I love being with my mother and my family. It's so important to love family through life. Don't let petty anger take you over so you forget your blood. I love my family. And I was so thankful to share Thanksgiving with them.